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Modern Romance by Aziz Ansari with Eric Klinenberg

Modern Romance Title: Modern Romance
Author: Aziz Ansari with Eric Klinenberg
Publisher: Penguin Press
ISBN: 9781594206276
Genre: Non-Fiction, Sociology
Pages: 288
Source: Publisher
Rating: 5/5

From the moment this book reached me, I knew I would enjoy it. Just the title was enough for me to make that decision and of course I had read something about it online, but I guess the entire concept of modern romance and dating and how we all get today when it comes to love and relationships was enough for me to get hooked on to this one. Teaming up with Eric Klinenberg, Aziz Ansari provides us the much needed perspective on what relationships are like today and what it takes to actually find the one “true love” in today’s age and time, with several dating apps and people literally at the beck and call of a swipe and click.

“Modern Romance” looks at data, a lot of data, given that Ansari and Klinenberg also conducted surveys in different cities of the world to subreddits whose responses were recorded and analyzed to getting privy to their texts (of course after their permission) to learn as much as they could about modern dating. The book has a lot of information on the psychology of dating and romance over the years and how we view it today, given the onslaught of apps and sites, catering to every single need and whim of what one expects in a partner.

What I found most interesting about the book is the way we use technology and how it has changed the way we think and perceive love and relationships. For instance, Ansari speaks of texting and how that has changed the way our patience levels have transformed and how we want things instantly. In many such examples and anecdotes, keeping the humour intact, Ansari explores the do’s and don’ts of dating. It is not a self-help book at all. Don’t be taken in by the way it sounds or seems. It is in fact a funny take on technology and also mentioning its advantages, so as readers are not disillusioned by it.

I wish there was more on the LGBT dating scene, but as the author mentions at the beginning that there would need to be a different book written for that and I couldn’t agree more. At times I would also see myself in all those stories, given that somewhere down the line we have all gone through the same old emotions as others when we search for anything meaningful online – from fear of rejection to boredom to thinking that more choices and options are good for us to sometimes just wanting that one single person.

“Modern Romance” is a funny and insightful book on how to navigate the terrain of love in the digital space. For instance, all the time Ansari emphasizes on humour and good it is to break the ice at most times. Aziz with his insights will make you reconsider and think of online dating differently for sure and at the same time make you see how investing, both in terms of time and effort might actually lead to something amazing between two people.

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The Mockingbird Next Door : Life with Harper Lee by Marja Mills

The Mockingbird Next Door by Marja Mills Title: The Mockingbird Next Door : Life with Harper Lee
Author: Marja Mills
Publisher: The Penguin Press
ISBN: 9781594205194
Genre: Non-Fiction, Literary Life, Women Writers,
Pages: 288
Source: Publisher
Rating: 5/5

When “To Kill a Mockingbird” released in 1960, it created a sensation. The theme was bold, ahead of its time and reflective of the society and its prejudices. The book was a hit like no other. It won the Pulitzer and many other awards. There was a movie made, which was a runaway success. There was a lot of talk around the book and it still continues to hold the same position in people’s hearts and lives. It is a beloved classic. It is a book most people swear by. It is the cornerstone of American literary fiction. Right after that, the author, Harper Lee did not ever write another book. There was just this one.

There is this enigma surrounding Harper Lee. She is eighty-eight years as of this year and no one knows much about her. I always wondered about the writer of this great book. What would she be like? How does she spend her days? What does she do? Does she still write? “The Mockingbird Next Door” by Marja Mills is the way to find out more about Harper Lee and it is one of the most heart-warming reads of the year for me.

Marja Mills was on an assignment. To find out more about Ms. Lee. It was nothing short of a surprise that the citizens of Monroeville, Alabama reached out her and helped her with it. Adding to it was Ms. Lee and her sister Alice’s support in letting Marja Mills know more about their life and themselves. I enjoy literary biographies. I love them. However, this book is not just another literary biography. In fact, I do not think it even belongs in that genre. The book is conversational. It is about Harper Lee’s life – her past and present. It is about the lady who gave America its most widely-read classic and yet no one seemed to know more about her life, till this book was out.

“The Mockingbird Next Door” is also about Mills’ life and her journey with the book and the sisters. It is about compassion, love, friendship and perhaps puts an end to all the speculation on Ms. Lee’s life. The book is an easy read and yet there are so many profound and relevant questions it raises: What is the nature of privacy in today’s world? What does it take to hold on to what you have? Most avid readers would love to know the reason why Harper Lee did not write a second book and this book delves into it with great detail and empathy for the writer.

“The Mockingbird Next Door” speaks of an era gone by and of the times we live in. It is a read which you will not forget and it will most certainly make you want to reread “To Kill a Mockingbird”. Marja Mills leaves you stunned with her eye for detail and interactions with the Lee sisters. I am in awe of this book. Do read it. You will not regret it.

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Book Review: The Newlyweds by Nell Freudenberger

Title: The Newlyweds
Author: Nell Freudenberger
Publisher: Viking
ISBN: 978-0670921843
Genre: Literary Fiction
Pages: 352
Source: Publisher
Rating: 4/5

When people from two different cultures marry each other, there is a lot at risk. The knowing that adaptation would have to be the order of the day at some point is very difficult to come to terms with. Not only that, but also the everyday living becomes a herculean task, which then becomes something to deal with. To make a life together is something that one needs to think of as top priority. This is the theme of Nell Freudenberger’s book, “The Newlyweds”.

The book is written more from the perspective of the wife than the husband, but then I am sure the author had her reasons for doing so. The plot: Amina and George are not your typical American couple. Amina is a Bengali woman from Bangladesh, flying to Rochester, New York to marry an American she met online. She will go to any lengths to bring her parents to America to live with her. From the first page the action in the book begins and lasts throughout with immense force, depicting not only cultural differences but also emotional ones.

Nell Freudenberger has created a poignant and real drama of how couples live today. The story is mainly about Amina and her dreams. The means and methods used by her to make them come true. I was a little disappointed that George’s character was explored fully, and thought that maybe he had a lot to say and do, which would have only added to the book’s overall experience.

Freudenberger’s world is fascinating to observe. The daily on-goings between the couple and the others who are a part of their lives, are interesting to watch. The Newlyweds is an interesting read. It is a portrait of a peculiar marriage and yet there is so much more beneath that. What do we share? Who do we trust? What secrets do we want to disclose? The Newlyweds is a love story, a story of alienation, a story of wanting it all and sometimes not getting it all. It is a book that exudes emotion on every page and does not get too sentimental about it. A great read for sure.

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Book Review: Chanel: An Intimate Life by Lisa Chaney

Title: Chanel: An Intimate Life
Author: Lisa Chaney
Publisher: Fig Tree, Penguin Group, Penguin Books
ISBN: 978-1-905-49036-3
Genre: Non-Fiction, Biography
Pages: 496
Source: Publisher
Rating: 4/5

One icon that instantly comes to my mind is “Coco Chanel” and it is not because of the laurels. It is because of the life she led. So when I received a detailed biography of Chanel’s life, I jumped at it and finished it in a matter of two days. Prior to this I had seen the movie based on her life, “Coco Chanel” starring Shirley MacLaine (who by the way made a perfect Chanel in her later years) and wanted to know about the designer who ruled the fashion scene for years.

Lisa Chaney’s book, “Chanel – An Intimate Life” is the most comprehensive biography there is on Chanel’s life and I say this after the research I have done on works written on her. Chanel not only chronicles Coco’s life before she turned Coco, but also proves to be an entertaining read.

The sadness and deprivation of her early years are heartbreaking – when the family did not have enough to eat and survive. Lisa then moves on from here to her emergence into fashionable society and the love affairs that defined her, to the man she loved the most and lost (Arthur ‘Boy’ Capel), to the point when she became a brand thereby changing the face of fashion to the war years as well as the loneliness of her later years to the re-emergence of Chanel in fashion.

Chaney clearly has the extraordinary ability to enter into and make her readers also understand the lives of people who were closely connected to Chanel. The writing did get pedantic in parts; however I ignored it because the rest of it was beautifully written. I liked how the author described the times Chanel lived in and how difficult it was then for any “new fashion sense” to make its presence felt. The analysis of the artistic scene then (Dali, Picasso, Cocteau) had a great impact on Chanel’s work and Lisa has given us a brilliant take there in most chapters.

Chaney’s book is an honest attempt to detail one of the most talked about lives in Fashion. It is a moving portrayal of a strong woman who did not let go of what she thought and believed in. Chanel makes for a great read.

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Book Review: Who, or Why, or Which, or What? by John Oldale

Title: Who or Why or Which or What?: A Global Gazetteer of the Instructive and the Strange
Author: John Oldale
Publisher: Particular Books
ISBN: 978-1846143366
Genre: Non-Fiction
Pages: 320
Source: Publisher
Rating: 4/5

Who, or Why, or Which, or What? is a strange book. It literally is. It is a book full of curious facts and amusing short anecdotes. Something you would like to talk about at a party or when you are just bored. The book is a cross between a global gazetteer (it also looks like one when opened – the illustrations and the facts reminded me of Ripley’s Believe It or Not) and a compendium of bizarre facts.

There is one page covering one country on the face of the earth and with that come various tidbits to chew on. John Oldale has archived these details in a very interesting manner. It is a lot of things put together – funny, informative and educational. A lot of fact-oriented information, which one can discuss with colleagues and friends at the same time.

The graphics sit perfectly with the text and that’s one of the other aspects that get the reader going with the book. You cannot read this book in one sitting. The reader would have to keep it down and come back to it once in every while to lap up more facts.

I normally would not have read this book. I would have in all probability shrugged it away like another useless information manual. However, the book is a lot more than that. It presents information in a funny manner and that is what is needed while writing or editing this kind of book. A good book to have in your bag or while travelling.

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